Hospice and Palliative Care: What Families Need to Know

Compassionate guide to hospice and palliative care services, Medicare coverage, and end-of-life care planning.

Hospice and palliative care focus on comfort, dignity, and quality of life when cure is no longer possible. This guide explains services, Medicare coverage, and how to make informed decisions.

Understanding the Difference

Palliative Care

Purpose: Relieve symptoms and stress of serious illness at any stage

Goal: Improve quality of life alongside curative treatment

When: Anytime during serious illness

Duration: No time limit

Covered by: Most insurance, Medicare Part B

Setting: Hospital, home, facility, or outpatient

Can continue treatment: Yes, can receive alongside curative care

Hospice Care

Purpose: Comfort and support when curative treatment stopped

Goal: Quality end-of-life care

When: Life expectancy 6 months or less (doctor's certification)

Duration: As long as terminal, re-certifiable

Covered by: Medicare Hospice Benefit, most insurance

Setting: Home (most common), facility, or hospital

Treatment stopped: Focus shifts to comfort, not cure

Key difference: Hospice means accepting end of life is approaching; palliative care can be provided while still seeking cure.

When to Consider Hospice

Eligibility Criteria

Medical requirements:

Terminal illness diagnosis
Life expectancy 6 months or less (if disease runs normal course)
Doctor certification
Patient (or representative) chooses comfort care

No requirement to:

Stop all medications
Give up hope
Stay in bed
Lose consciousness

Signs It May Be Time

Frequent hospitalizations: Multiple times in recent months

Declining function: ADLs increasingly difficult

Weight loss: Significant, unexplained

Increased symptoms: Pain, shortness of breath, fatigue

Medical opinion: Doctor suggests comfort care

Patient wishes: Chooses quality over quantity

Curative treatment failing: No longer effective or tolerated

Hospice Services

What's Included

Medical care:

Physician services
Nursing care (visits and on-call)
Medical equipment (hospital bed, oxygen, wheelchair)
Medications for comfort (related to terminal diagnosis)
Medical supplies

Support services:

Home health aide (personal care)
Social worker support
Chaplain/spiritual counseling
Volunteer support
Bereavement counseling (family, 13 months after death)

Therapies:

Physical therapy (comfort, not rehab)
Occupational therapy
Speech therapy
Complementary therapies (massage, music)

Team Approach

Hospice team includes:

Medical director
Primary physician
Registered nurses
Home health aides
Social workers
Chaplains
Volunteers
Bereavement coordinators

Coordination: Team meets regularly to discuss care plan

Medicare Hospice Benefit

Coverage Details

Medicare Part A covers:

All hospice services
Medications for pain and symptom control
Equipment and supplies
Short-term respite care (5 days)
Short-term inpatient care if needed

Four levels of care:

Routine home care: Most common, at home
Continuous home care: Crisis periods, 24-hour care
Inpatient respite: Caregiver break, up to 5 days
General inpatient: Symptom management

Patient Costs

No cost for:

Hospice services
Medications for terminal illness
Equipment and supplies

Small copays:

Prescription drugs: $5 copay
Respite care: 5% of Medicare payment ($200 typical)

Not covered:

Treatment to cure terminal illness
Medications/services unrelated to terminal illness
Room and board (unless in facility for crisis)

Certification Periods

Initial: 90 days Second: 90 days Subsequent: 60 days each

Recertification: Doctor must certify still terminal

No limit: Can receive as long as terminally ill

Where Hospice Provided

Home Hospice (Most Common)

68% receive hospice at home

Services: Team visits, on-call 24/7

Family role: Primary caregivers with support

Benefits:

Familiar surroundings
Privacy and comfort
Pet and family access
Personalized routine

Challenges: Family provides most care between visits

Facility-Based Hospice

Settings:

Assisted living facility
Nursing home
Memory care
Dedicated hospice house

Medicare covers: Hospice services, not room/board

Patient pays: Facility costs separately

Benefits: 24/7 professional care

Inpatient Hospice

Hospice houses: Stand-alone facilities

Homelike: Private rooms, family can stay

24/7 care: For uncontrolled symptoms

Cost: Covered by Medicare during crisis

Palliative Care Services

What Palliative Care Provides

Symptom management:

Pain control
Nausea relief
Breathing difficulties
Fatigue
Depression/anxiety

Care coordination: Navigate complex medical system

Communication: Help discuss goals of care

Support: Emotional and practical

Where Provided

Hospital: Consult teams

Outpatient clinics: Office visits

Home: Some programs offer

Any stage: Alongside curative treatment

Payment

Medicare Part B: Covers services

Private insurance: Usually covers

No special enrollment: Bill like other medical care

Choosing a Hospice Provider

Types of Providers

Nonprofit: Community-based, mission-driven

For-profit: Corporate chains

Hospital-affiliated: Part of healthcare system

Quality varies: Don't assume nonprofit automatically better

Questions to Ask

About services:

Available 24/7 for calls and visits?
Average response time for crises?
Nurse visit frequency?
Aide services hours per week?
Complementary therapies offered?
Bereavement support specifics?

About team:

Who's on care team?
Will same nurse/aide visit regularly?
Staff-to-patient ratios?
Training and experience?

About approach:

Pain management philosophy?
Cultural/spiritual sensitivity?
Family communication methods?
How handle after-hours needs?

Quality Indicators

Check:

Medicare star ratings: medicare.gov/care-compare
State survey results
NHPCO membership (professional org)
Accreditation (Joint Commission, CHAP)

Ask others:

Doctor recommendations
Friends' experiences
Online reviews (cautiously)

Pain and Symptom Management

Common End-of-Life Symptoms

Pain: Controlled with medications, positioning

Shortness of breath: Oxygen, medications, positioning

Nausea: Anti-nausea medications, diet modifications

Anxiety/restlessness: Medications, calming environment

Confusion: Reorientation, medication adjustment

Constipation: Preventive medications

Pain Management Myths

Myth: Morphine hastens death Truth: Proper dosing relieves suffering without shortening life

Myth: Pain means end is near Truth: Pain can be controlled at any stage

Myth: Will become addicted Truth: Addiction not a concern at end of life

Family Caregiver Support

What Family Does

Between hospice visits:

Provide companionship
Assist with personal care
Give medications
Monitor comfort
Contact hospice with concerns

Hospice team: Teaches and supports family

Respite Care

Need a break: Normal and important

Options:

Inpatient respite (Medicare covers 5 days)
Volunteer sitters
Family rotation
Additional aide hours (some programs)

Don't feel guilty: Taking care of yourself helps loved one

Caregiver Resources

Hospice provides:

Social worker support
Training on care tasks
24/7 phone support
Emotional support

External resources:

Family Caregiver Alliance
Local support groups
Faith community
Friends and family

End-of-Life Process

What to Expect

Weeks before:

Increased sleep
Less interest in food/drink
Social withdrawal
Confusion

Days before:

Unresponsive periods
Irregular breathing
Cool extremities
Mottled skin
Decreased urine output

Hours before:

Breathing changes (Cheyne-Stokes)
Gurgling sounds
Restlessness or peace
May rally briefly

At death:

Breathing stops
No pulse
Pupils fixed
Body relaxes

Being Present

What helps:

Speak normally (hearing is last sense)
Touch, hold hand
Play favorite music
Read, tell stories
Give permission to let go
Simply be present

You don't need to:

Say perfect words
Prevent death
Fix anything
Be there every moment

After Death Occurs

Immediate Steps

If at home with hospice:

Call hospice nurse (not 911)
Nurse pronounces death
Family has time with body
Hospice calls funeral home
Nurse completes paperwork

Don't call 911: Unless desire resuscitation

No rush: Take time to say goodbye

Bereavement Support

Hospice provides:

13 months of bereavement support
Counseling
Support groups
Memorial events
Phone check-ins
Educational materials

For children/grandchildren: Age-appropriate support

Making the Decision

Common Concerns

"Giving up hope":

Hope shifts to comfort, peace, meaningful time
Not giving up, choosing quality

"Too early":

Can revoke anytime
Better to start with support available
Average length only 18 days (many wait too long)

"Too much too soon":

Services adapt to needs
Can be minimal support initially

"What will doctor think":

Most doctors supportive
Hospice works with physician

Having the Conversation

Discuss:

Values and priorities
What quality of life means
Fears and concerns
Spiritual beliefs
Where want to be
Who want present

Advance directives: Put wishes in writing

Involve hospice: They facilitate difficult conversations

Revoking Hospice

Can revoke anytime: Resume curative treatment

Reasons:

Condition improves
New treatment available
Changed mind
Moving to different hospice

Medicare: Can re-elect hospice if become terminal again

About 10%: Revoke and resume treatment

Pediatric and Young Adult Hospice

Children eligible: If terminal diagnosis

Concurrent care: Children can receive curative and comfort care simultaneously

Specialized: Pediatric hospice teams

Veterans and Hospice

VA benefits:

VA hospice programs
Can receive hospice anywhere
May cover both VA and Medicare

We Honor Veterans: Program recognizing military service

Cultural Considerations

Good hospices:

Respect cultural traditions
Accommodate rituals
Provide culturally competent staff
Include family as defined by patient

Discuss needs: Diet, religion, rituals, family involvement

Resources

Finding Hospice

NHPCO (National Hospice & Palliative Care Org): nhpco.org, 1-800-658-8898
Medicare Hospice Compare: medicare.gov/care-compare
Doctor referral
Hospital discharge planning

Education

NHPCO CaringInfo: caringinfo.org
Center to Advance Palliative Care: getpalliativecare.org
Medicare Hospice Benefits: medicare.gov/publications

Support

Hospice Foundation of America: 1-800-854-3402
Grief support: modgriefcare.com
Children's grief: dougy.org

Most important: Hospice is about living as fully and comfortably as possible. It's specialized support for one of life's most important journeys.

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